We all talk about loving our spouses, girlfriends and boyfriends..but do we really love them as we should?? Frankly to say, I've never ever seen anyone, till date, who loves someone unconditionally..with that purity..with that passion..with that innocence which should have been there between two hearts.
That two body one soul-wala baat..kisime nahi dekha hai.. So does that mean that we, in this fast paced life have forgotten to love others...I don't think so...We love our pets with the same passion and vigor..with that same innocence..cause we know that they will never deceive us..
False alarm of being in love, scared to get deceived, being obsessed is all the negative terms and actions that leads to such a poor state of affairs.
Open your heart ..open your soul.. open your eyes..GOD has been kind to most of us to give us five senses along with that other sense which makes them six senses. It is our duty to start using them before we lose ourselves in the hands of hatred and sorrow!!!!
If you love anyone..love unconditionally and never expect anything in return, cause even if you think of that..its not love. Love makes us strong and not weak.. If you are in true love then never will you crave for it. Cause it will turn a loser into a winner, a hopeless one into a fortuner.. a dying heart back to a living soul.. It has great power.. Never will it make a person fall down.. it will only make you rise rise and rise..burstling with power and strength.. Negative energy can never be into a person in true love and if its there that means he or she is in OBSESSION and not in LOVE - the difference of the two being like a hell and heaven difference.
So decide and make out if you are in love or obsession..if you are pointing towards the latter then ..: "Mamu..jitna jaldi ho sake..kalti marlo..warna pachchtaoge..!!!"
P.S : That does not mean that you will force yourself into doing the above mentioned points to show yourself that you are in true love..By doing this you will lie to yourself and not to others..to tell you in short words..you are deceiving yourself and there is no other fool ever to be found again!
I disagree...
ReplyDeleteThe definition of love given by you, itself defies its own logic. When you say ‘love unconditionally and never expect anything in return’ you are yourself setting up a condition that it should be ‘unrequited love’ i.e. there would be no reciprocation for his love. And if you try to look up for the role in reciprocity in love you will find it plays a very important role in the culmination of your love. And for the lack of it your love is just ‘unrequited love’, the harmful effects of which can easily be googled out.
Again there is a segment which believes love is suffering, and it is these people who cherish the pain and suffering of someone who goes through ‘unrequited love’. The definition that you have quoted here is also one such creation of that segment.
Lastly, one inference that I have made from your argument is that ‘if your love is true you should keep loving the person… even if the other person doesn’t reciprocates… even if the person ignores you… even if the other person dumps you for someone else’….But you should keep loving him/her as your love is ‘TRUE’. But according to this inference you can never have an ex boyfriend/girlfriend, if your love was true, coz if it was true you should still be loving the first person. So your arguments yourself says that those who have ex boyfriend/girlfriend never had ‘true love’ (Which I personally don’t think to be the right hypothesis)
You might differ, but this is my opinion.
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That is true..but you are again again taking it wrong. The people who do not even remember or do not want to contact their exs' were never in love. But those who loved them truly will still be craving for that time to come back ..will miss their true love. you cannot force yourself to love a person ..neither can you make the other person love you. It just happens however much you try to avoid yourself from doing so..But if you truly love a person then you will do anything for that person just to make him/her smile..just to make him/her happy but never once thinkin about urself. That is love..
ReplyDeleteAnd about a person ditching you..the person himself/herself is not worth loving so you were never in love with that person.It was a simple obsession from your part. That cannot be love.
Love happens when you find a true self into the other person..the truth lies unto him/her. If not then beware! it cant be love..you r deceiving urself..:)