The first step to get all that you have always craved for, is to love yourself like holding an egg in your hand. Sounds crazy..but true. You have to be very careful and very loving while treating yourself. Cause as the song goes-
"Ek pal ka jeena fir to hai jana,
Taufa kya leke jaye ye dil to batana.
Khali haat aye the hum, khali haat jayenge.
Bass pyar ke do meethe bol jhilmilayenge.
To hass kyunki duniya ko hai hasana.
E mere dil tu gayeja..e aa e aa o aa e aa.."
So popular a song..but how many of us pause to understand the song...??? Maybe very few.
Many people out there fail to love themselves but still crave for someone to love them. Why? Why should we expect others to love us when we do not love ourselves at all?? Love yourself as no one will do it for you cause we also love others for a purpose... to fulfill our wants. A lover loves his or her love cause they want them to be with them forever. Reason because they do not want to be all alone in life craving for that perfect life. Parents love their children cause they want to take on their lives to fulfill their unaccomplished dreams or to have a family. Reason: Fear of loneliness. Likewise everyone in this world has some or the other stupid reasons to love others. Stupid selfish people that we are..!!! Living for others, making them happy are some ways to love yourself to pamper yourself. Why do you think that people keep pets..??? Specially now-a-days when life has become difficult. Its just to curtail loneliness. See we are not at all perfect as we boast to be.. The real thing being that its not possible how much ever we try.
I live and survive by making others happy and would like to tell everyone who has forgotten to love themselves. Love others dude.. you'll find greater happiness in doing so. Your heart will beat a lot more than it did. Make a person happy and you will find yourself to be the happiest person in this whole world. Happier than the richest person in this world- you'll feel as if you are the "King of the World!!! " No sorrow can ever touch you. Find your true passion, your motto, your right path and I promise that you will touch the sky. Forget people who tell you that you are not right, that you are a terrible person, an idiot, a mad man. 'YOU ARE SPECIAL' should be your ultimum. Remember always that people will try to suppress you to surpass you. But you should be tactful enough to know when to bypass and when to attack!!
You are a gift by yourself. No one can become you. Its only you.. a special child of the ALMIGHTY
Be happy and grateful to whatever you have as you should always remember that there are lots and lots of people out there who has aweful life than you, but still they never forget to SMILE.
LOVE YOURSELF FOR WHAT YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU CAN BE.
STRIVE TO BECOME THAT PERSON THAT YOU WISH TO BE - HAPPY AND GAY
Aur agar phir bhi tumhe akela lage to 'Main Hoon Na', cause everytime I help you out, I love myself more and more...!!
