One of my best friends came down to meet me ...it was on Saturday.. perhaps the best day in my life... we had a great time together and from those 2 days I could well understand some of the best things of life, perhaps the most important things that surrounds happiness .. they are just a few to name...KEEP YOURSELF ENGAGED AMONGST THE THINGS WHICH MAKES YOU HAPPY...the truth that many of us crave to understand ..many of us fail do to such too...so whats the point..the point is or as my professors there at business school tells us the core issue to the case is that we know what it takes to make us happy but we become too engrossed in the other issues of life..which to us seems to be the most important or the core issues of our life...failing to understand the simple thing called happiness...

We all love to show ourselves that we have much deeper and heavier problems than others..which is absolutely untrue..cause things like unhappiness as well as happiness cannot be measured..it depends on person to person and their ability to handle their own personal problems. But why don't we realize that its just a smile in our face that can change the whole surroundings - may be the whole wide world...

YES this can be done....only by a simple method of BELIEF- belief in us...our abilities...our strength.

I always belief that we have come to this earth with an objective...an objective to change this world as well as others thought process. And if we are alive that means only one thing..and that is....:"PICTURE ABHI BAKI HAI MERE DOST...!!!!!!!"

LIFE

"Life is full of beauty. Notice it. Notice the bumble bee, the small child and the smiling faces. Smell the rain and feel the wind. Live your life to the fullest potential and fight for your dreams."

-Ashley Smith

This is Life. There will be many circumstances where you will find that your stay in this world seems to be of no use. But we keep on forgetting that many of other's lives are dependent on ours. If we look at the broader aspects of life we will see that there are so many things to enjoy...so many other things to worry about..so many things to keep us happy, so many things to love and so many other to love us..a small smile, a warm welcome by your pet when you return home, laughter of a child, butterflies hopping from one flower to the other, big dark clouds, RAIN, thunder storm, the sway of flowers...all brings a smile to my face. Noticing nature brings back a smile..Dont you think that there are so many things to learn from the nature. Flowers: Always give out to others and do not expect anything in return. The flowers give out fragrance and mesmerizes us even when it is plucked till they die.

Clouds and Thunder: When people have so many deeds in their mind then start roaring. ANGER.

Rain: To calm down the turmoil inside its better to let them go and clean up our inner soul.

God says that calm down and look at the things practically.

Every person has the right to live life happily.

Do it right now...

DO IT !!!!!

Do whatever you like and be happy.

DO IT NOW...

live life like never before...

SMILE ALWAYS....

...STORM...

Hmm.. interesting topic for today.. which I face almost everyday here at Guwahati. As usual we'll start of by a real time definition... A storm (from Proto-Germanic *sturmaz "noise, tumult") is any disturbed state of an astronomical body's atmosphere, especially affecting its surface, and strongly implying severe weather. It may be marked by strong wind, thunder and lightning (athunderstorm), heavy precipitation, such as ice (ice storm), or wind transporting some substance through the atmosphere (as in adust storm, snowstorm, hailstorm, etc).

Nature explains human mind and its disturbances...How true it is..! The same definition lies for a human behaviour also, whenever it is in its turbulent behaviour! Before a Storm happens within us, cloud appears within us..strong dark clouds surround our mind and heart.. Storm frightens some, but also soothes people's heart and mind..

Tagore said "botshorer aborjona..dur hoye jak jak jak..esho esho..esho hey boishakh esho esho"

[ years of clogged trashes will go away after this storm..come o storm]

Welcome the storm whole heartedly whether be it in your heart or there at your city, cause this will only make your heart lighter and your city cleaner and fresher!

Mood Swings...

What are Mood Swings?

Mood swings are characterized by a drastic change in emotion from one side of the spectrum to the other. If one moment someone is contentedly going about their daily tasks, and the next moment is suddenly upset, irritated or downright hostile, they may suffer from mood swings.

It is completely normal to experience the wide range of negative emotions like anger, irritability, tearfulness and sadness that affect us all from time to time. But when out of control mood swings start to affect our ability to function properly in jobs or personal relationships, they become an issue worth addressing.

[ taken from www.nativeremedies.com ]

Well we've got hold of what do we really mean by mood swings..thru a google search...that is..

Now you all might be wondering why have I provided this definition for...!!! Well folks today I'm gonna talk to you about my part of life...yup!!! Mood swing that is..many of my friends have stated why have I stopped writing blogs of late..well to tell u'll the truth...I did'nt have the urge to write down a few lines...it all depends on mood you see..to which I heavily depend on..!!! On the contrary, I did not find a topic worth writing about... Today I got one..when one of my friend very near and dear to me had told me that this mood swing of mine is irritating a lot of people lately.. True to some extent..may be it is somewhat very irritating for a person to bear another with such a truce. Not further comlaining of such a matter lets get forward with our topic of discussion today...

Well I should tell you'll what really do I feel when such a thing happens..Its really irritating at that time..I feel as if I sitting on the 100th floor of HELL..!! GOD help anyone who comes to talk to me at that moment of time..

But later on I really feel low but happy too..these incidents make me grin at times..

Well but to converge all..I want to but say sorry to all for my behaviour at times..Im really sorry if I've ever hurt you all through my beahviour...

The above lines are the reasons as to my irratic behaviour ..!!!!

S O R R Y

AM I ON TRACK...????

People sometimes find weird things happening in their lives.. .. which is inexplicable ... sometimes many a things happen in your life which you do which always remains a big big question mark above your small head..sometimes you feel "Oh GOD..!!! What have I done...???" and sometimes.."Is dis ME..?" But the main thing that we forget is that...Its already over...!!! Everything is done...and there's no moving back and solving it in the past...rather we can look through it and mend our future...!!!

"TIME WAITS FOR NONE"

A true proverb which was taught to us long back...the outer meaning is understood by all of us...dats y we all ...rather the society wants us to be punctual always....but what about the inner meaning of the whole thing...?? Rather...lets put it like this...Does this have a deeper meaning unto it...??? Hmmm....May be...

Why not take it like this...???

If time waits for none...and this be the great Law Of Nature....,Why should we stop acting in our life...???..Just by waiting for someone...??? Not even a flower stops its fragrance from coming out just with the fear of whithering the next day...even while dying it mesmerizes us with its wonderful fragrance...So why should we...???

Everyone's scared of failure....But why not try once...??? Why not live your life once again..?

Why not just smile and share joy...and happiness...smiling makes us live another day of our life...another chance to live witth our loved ones who loves us....too much...

Conclusion should be nice...thats what my friend here says...Let me introduce...its Anjum...

So here it is...

No one deserves your tears...and the one who do...will not make you CRY....!!!

I LOVE YOU.....?????

You have to walk carefully in the beginning of love; the running across fields into your lover's arms can only come later when you're sure they won't laugh if you trip.

~Jonathan Carroll, "Outside the Dog Museum"

How true are these words..!!!

May be these will be valid only for some few of us..who have had a mind boggling experience with LOVE....hard to think about...but the one thing I would like to comment is that ...love is scary...it can make or take away life...

LOVE with all your heart and all your soul...never pity yourself though..cause the person who loves you will never make you feel so...

They'll hate it when you are upset and will get mad if someone hurts you...and they will never put you down..

But today I wanna tell you that Im so much in deeply in love with you..that no one can take away your place for me...

That's all I'm sayin...

Don't get upset ever...cause no fear is less than your self esteem...

Well...for long...people think what is LOVE...??

Some people think that its when you feel for someone...some say that it is when you can spend your entire life with someone..but then...do you realise that these are but Short Term definitions of LOVE....well if you wanna ask me...then I can only say..that love has no real meaning...it varies from person to person....well lets start like this...that for a parent love means long term gains of their children...for a lover , love means...falling for that person everytime you meet him/her...to make them happy in future and that becomes their one and only wish....for a child..the smile in their parent's cheeks are the only thing they crave for..for a pet...a small pat is all they want...which tells them ultimately that they love him too...

Time and again..we get confused as to whether the other person loves us or not..or that whether we love that person or not!!!

To this may be I can ask you only one question..that whether we think same for our parents??? We never ask such question regarding our parents..cause we know its baseless..after all we cannot make them seperate..!!! Or be the reason behind their divorce..!!! This question is baseless cause we just trust them....In a relation ..the one important thing is the word TRUST..Without this word no relation can sustain itself for long...no matter how hard they try..

So only one request to those who are confused about their life and love....just trust yourself..believe in your self..and trust your love..and most of all..trust the lord...he definitely has something in store for you...

JUST TRUST...AND LOVE...UNCONDITIONALLY...